Honor chastity can be a unique and profound journey that goes far beyond the simple act of not orgasming. Or not. It can just be as simple as… “I own you and your orgasms and I will tell you when you can have one. Conversation over.”

This article is how I, Domina, “do” chastity.  
There is no “teasing”.
There is no ‘begging”.
There is no “count down”, no calendar.
There are no “check ins”.

The way I do chastity was a simple “Don’t touch yourself sexually, do not watch porn, do not cum; without my explicit direction or permission.” Spoken once, 2 years ago. 
And he obeys.

Boom. Done. 
No games. No “Loctober”. Just, don’t touch yourself. And he doesn’t.

I do wear a key. A key to a cage he does not wear. Because he is still in chastity to me, as real as if he were in a cage.
And I do use his body for my pleasure whenever I feel like it.  
I am the Dominant. We do the things I want to do. And I chose JoeBuxxx as my boy because I am attracted to him.  I want to touch his body. I want to feel him inside me. I want to make him cum.
So, it is not like, he never finds “release”. Often he is commanded to cum more than he would like.  He wants to be teased. He wants to be denied. He wants to be used and put away hard and throbbing.

Tough shit.
I want to enjoy the body I take pride in owning. 
I have free use.
I have his consent for non-consent.
I use him when I feel like it. 
He may not use himself.

I am proud of the fact that he has not decided on one orgasm since the day we met. I have controlled them all.

I know my way is not the only way. It is not even a common way or popular way.  
I live a 24/7 D/s FLR. Our relationship centers on what I want. And he gets joy from be ing the one to supply what I want.
So our chastity is the way I want it. 
And my hope in writing this is that the Doms and subs of the world will read this and know, there is no one way to do chastity. But in my opinion, if you are in a D/s, however you do it, should be consensual, sure. But it should also be in a way the D is enthusiastically on board. Not how the sub pushes it to be.