Educational Books on Skills and Relationships

Bondage

• Alazars Book of Bondage Illustrations,Volume 1 of 2 by Alazar
• Alazars Book of Bondage Illustrations,Volume 2 of 2 by Alazar
• Basic Rope Bondage, The toybag guide by Jay Wiseman
• Bondage Basics, Naughty Knots And Risque Restraints You Need To Know by Lord Morpheous
• Complete Shibari: Land, Complete Shibari: Sky, The Better Built Bondage Book by Douglas Kent
• Essence of Shibari, Kinbaku and Japanese Rope Bondage by Shin Nawakari
• Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman
• Learning the Ropes by Race Bannon
• Naughty Knots, Light Bondage and Bedroom Tricks by Potter Style
• Rope, Bondage and Power by Lee Harrington
• The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori  and Craig Morey
• Shibari You Can Use, Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame by Lee Harrington
• Ties That Bind, S&M leather fetish erotic style issues and advice by Guy Baldwin
• Tight Knots, The Art Of Rope Bondage by Tess Ann
• Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes by JD and Dan
• Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes by JD and Dan
• The Ultimate Guide to Bondage by Mistress Couple
  

CBT

• Family Jewels A Guide To Male Genital Play And Torment by Hardy Haberman

Chastity

• Chastity Cuckolding and Technical Castration by Hazel Love
• Chastity for Men in Relationships: Improve your relationship and fire up your Sex life by letting her manage you by Spencer, Lee
• Chastity: The Guide to Male Chastity by Rudder, Marisa
• Confessions of a Key Holder Chastity Cuckolding and Technical Castration by Hazel Love
• Domme, How to Find Your Key Holder by Amber Lane
• The Hitchhiker’s Guide to Male Chastity by J. K. Spenser
• A Keyholders Diary by Esther Park
• A KeyHolders Handbook by Georgia Ivey Green
• Male Chastity A Guide for Key Holders by Lucy Fairbourne
• Restart Intimacy A Unique Approach To Male Chastity by Sierra Parker
• Tips and Tricks For KeyHolders by Georgia Ivey Green

Communication / Negotiation

• When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
• The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook by Princess Kali
• 365 Days of Kink Journal by Princess Kali

Cuckholding

• Cuckolding, The Revolutionary Guide by Marisa Rudder
• From Housewife to Cuckoldress: How I Took Sexual Control of a Marriage in Crisis by Hathaway, Alex
• How to Get Your Wife to Cuckold by Lionel Maximilien

Disciple

• Discipline, Adding Rules And Discipline To Your BDSM Relationship by Lily Lloyd
• Domestic Discipline, How to live in harmony, Essential Guide to Domestic Discipline Techniques by Jules Markham
• Order For Discipline And Service Handbook by Alfred Press

Electric Play

• Electro Stim Safety, A technical guide by Lady Robin
• Juice, Electricity For Pleasure And Pain by Uncle Abdul

Feet

• Natural Foot Care,Herbal Treatments Massage and Exercises for Healthy Feet by Stephanie Tourles
• The Toybag Guide To Foot And Shoe Worship by Midori

Feminization

• Charm School For Sissy Maids, Owning and training a sissy maid for a happy mistress by Lorelei

Fire Play

• Flames Of Passion, Handbook Of Erotic Fire Play by David Walker and Robert J Rubel

Humiliation

• Dining With Humpty Dumpty by Reba Maybury
• Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation by Princess Kali
• Enough To Make You Blush: Companion Workbook by Princess Kali

Hypnosis / Brainwashing

• Behavioral Psychology of FemDom And Brainwashing Techniques by William Bond
• Beyond Games of Trance, Hypnotism, Hypnosis Fetishism and BDSM by Alex Tsander
• Breaking My Slave, Research and Study, BDSM Mind Control vs Brainwashing by De Coster
• Erotic Hypnosis, A Beginners Crash Course, Including femdom and female led relationships scripts by Alexandra Morris
• Erotic Hypnosis Scripts, Collection of hypnotic induction scripts by Charlie Bitten
• FemDom And Brainwashing Techniques by William Bond
• HypnoDomme by Kali DuBois
• Hypnotize Your Lover, Master the art of hypnotic seduction by Wendi Friesen
• Kinky NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming for Erotic Hypnosis by sleepingirl
• Look Into My Eyes, How to use hypnosis to bring out the best in your sex life by Peter Masters
• Mastering Erotic Hypnosis, A Comprehensive Manual for Erotic Play Fetish and Kink by James Gordon and Rebecca Doll
• Mind Play, A Guide To Erotic Hypnosis by Mark Wiseman
• Mind Whisperer, Erotic Hypnosis Sensual Trace And Beyond by Shane Hill
• Pillow Talk, A Comprehensive Guide To Erotic Hypnosis And Relyfe Programming by Michael Scott
• Tao of Relationship, Maintenance for Mind Controllers, A hypnotic guide to change management by Joseph W Crown

Impact

• Flogging by Joseph Bean

Leather

• Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice by Mark Thompson, Dorothy Allison, Guy Baldwin
• The Leathermans Handbook II by Larry Townsend
• The Leathermans Protocol Handbook by John Weal
• Leathersex: A Guide For the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player by Joseph W Bean.
• Urban Aboriginals: A Celebration of Leather Sexuality by Geoff Mains

Pegging

• The Pegging Book by Cooper S. Beckett and Lyndzi Miller

Polyamory

• The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go by Lola Phoenix
• The Ethical Slut by Janet W Hardy, Dossie Easton
• It’s Called Polyamory, Coming out about your nonmonogamous relationships by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles
• The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola
• Love is Not Colorblind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin Patterson
• Love Without Emergency: I Want This but I Feel Like I’m Going to Die by Clementine Morrigan
• More Than Two by Franklin Beaux, Eve Rickert
• More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux
• Open Deeply By Kate Loree
• Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
• Polyamory and Kink, A polyamory on purpose guide by Jess Mahler
• The Polyamory Toolkit by Dan & Dawn Williams
• Polysecure by Jessica Fern
• Power Circuits, Polyamory in a Power Dynamic by Raven Kaldera
• Swinging,The Guide to a Friends with Benefits Lifestyle by Marisa Rudder
• Trauma Informed Polyamory: Building Safety and Security by Clementine Morrigan

Prodomme

• Camming, Money Power and Pleasure in the Sex Work Industry by Angela Jones
• History and Arts of the Dominatrix by Anne O Nomis
• Making Bank: A Money Management Workbook for Erotic Entrepreneurs by Princess Kali

Protocol

• Compilation of Books on Etiquette, Manners & Housekeeping through the ages – https://fetlife.com/groups/9413/posts/18818130
• BDSM Rules, Contracts protocols etiquette and rules to follow by Phil G
• Leatherman’s Protocol Handbook, Old guard rituals traditions and protocols by John D Weal
• Protocols – A Variety of Views – Robert Rubel
• Protocols Handbook For The Female Slave – Robert Rubel
• Protocol Manual, Protocols for submissives by James Gordon
• Ritual of Dominance and Submission, A guide to high protocol dominance and submission by David English

Service

• Lessons In Service From Charlie Trotter
• Order For Discipline And Service Handbook by Alfred Press
• Real Service – Joshua Tenpenny
• Real Women Don’t Do Housework, A summary guide by Lady Misato

Spanking

• The Adult Spanking and Discipline Handbook by Gemma Forbes
• The Complete Spanker by Lady Green aka Janet Hardy
• Consensual Spanking, How to spank, How to be spanked by Jules Markham
• How to Spank Your Husband: five tales of female led relationships by Kelly, Shaun
• Illustrated Spanking for Lovers by Janet W Hardy
• Psychology of Adult Spanking,Volume 2, Role Play, Using Role Play Scenarios To Maximize Your Spanking Experience by Jacqueline Omerta
• Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren’t By Cloud and Townsend
• Sex with Shakespeare: Here’s Much to Do with Pain, but More with Love -Jillian Keenan Spankings and Sexual Punishments by Nika Bella Dea
• Spanking, The Erotic Guide to Relationship Discipline by Marisa Rudder
• Spanking for Lovers by Hardy, Janet W.
• The Spanking Hand Book: The Authoritative Guide on Adult Discipline by Eve, Instructing
• The Spanking Secret: a female-led relationship by Burke, Ken
• Taking Charge of Her Marriage: A FLR Tale of Spanking, Figging, and Pegging by Myrrh, Elizabeth
• Unfuck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs by Dr Faith G Harper
• Consensual Spanking by Jules Markham

Spirituality / Sacred / Magick

• Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera
• Endless Knot, A Spiritual Odyssey Through SadoMasochism by Mathew Styranka
• Pussy Prayers, Sacred and Sensual Rituals for Wild Women of Color, A juicy juju guide by Anika Tene Rich
• Sacred Kink, The eightfold paths of BDSM and Beyond by Lee Harrington
• Sacred Sex, The Magick and Path of the Divine Erotic by Gabriela Herstik
• Secrets Sensuous Magic, A Guide to S and M for adventurous couples by Patrick Califia