Educational Books on Femdom

  • A Guide To Caring Domination by Caroline Peel, Femi Johnson
  • A Guide To The Correction of Young Gentlemen by Alice Kerr-sutherland
  • Aesthetic Sexuality – Romana Byrne
  • The Art of Sensual Female Dominance, A Guide for Women by Claudia Varrin
  • Around Her Finger – Addison
  • At Her Feet – TammyJo Eckhart
  • Coming to Power by Pat/Patrick Califia
  • Concertina: The Life And Loves Of A Dominatrix by Susan Winemaker Confessions of a Secret Dominatrix by Mistress Marilyn
  • Control Your Submissive Boy, 150 Ways for the New Domme to Master Her Man by Raven Michaels Lockhart
  • Different Loving: The world of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria G Brame, William D Brame, Jon Jacobs
  • The Dominatrix Archetypes®: Become a Multidimensional Dominatrix in the Art of BDSM FemDom by Mistress Damiana Chi Ph.D.
  • Dominatrix, Gender Eroticism and Control in the Dungeon by Danielle J Lindemann
  • Dominant Female Submissive Male by Sophia James
  • The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin
  • Erotic Slavehood by Christina Abernathy
  • Erotic Surrender by Claudia Varrin
  • Female Dominance Rituals And Practices by Claudia Varrin
  • The Female Dominant, Games She Plays by Claudia Varrin
  • Female Domination 101 by Constance Pennungton Smythe
  • FEMDOM: ‘How To’ Femdom Guides Book series by Sharyn Ferns @Ferns
  • How To Write An Awesome Online Profile: For Submissive Men
  • How To Find A Dominant Woman: For Submissive Men
  • How To Make Your First BDSM Scene Amazing: For Dominant Women
  • How To Handle Disobedience: For Dominant Women
  • Femdom for Nice Girls – Lucy Fairbourne
  • FemDom Relationship: A Guide To Caring Domination by Caroline Peel, Femi Johnson FemDom Training of Submissive Males – Vanessa Chaland
  • Feminist Submissive by Malbon
  • Fetish girl, A memoir of sex domination and motherhood by Bella LaVey
  • Finding Love Through Female Domination by Renee Lane
  • Finding Your Domme, Practical step by step advice for the submissive man seeking a dominant woman by Sydney and Logan Hart
  • Girls Guide to Femdom, Tips Tricks Rituals and Punishments for Every Week of the Year by Lucy Fairbourne
  • The Good Girls Guide to Domination
  • Guide To The Correction of Young Gentlemen by an anonymous Lady in 1924
  • The Heart of Dominance by Anton Fulmen (@MrFulmen }
  • The Heart of the Dominatrix: Portraits and Interviews of Exceptional Mistresses by Inanna Justice
  • The Hesitant Mistress by Dvanna Hightower
  • His Deep Submission by Kim Acton
  • The History & Arts of the Dominatrix – @AnneONomis
  • Hite Report, A National Study of Female Sexuality by Shere Hite
  • How Can I Make This WORSE For You? – Lessons in controlled, erotic, and maddening escalation from a lifestyle dominant by Ms. Rika (@Ms_Rika )
  • How To Love A Powerful Woman by TeErika Patterson
  • How to Be a Dominant Diva by Georgia Payne and Julie Taylor
  • Imaginative Sex by John Norman
  • Learning Curves by Beth Younger
  • Masochism by A Jungian View by Lyn Cowan
  • Mental Branding by Morte
  • Mirror of Relationship by J Krishnamurti
  • Miss Abernathys Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy
  • Mistress Manual,The Good Girls Guide to Female Dominance by Lorelei
  • Mistress Ruby Ties It Together by Robin Shamburg
  • Modern Sexuality by Michael Aaron
  • More Joy: The Joy of Denial … Continued by @Ms_Rika
  • Obedience Treatment Contested by James Missaglia
  • Obedient Treatment Continues by James Missaglia
  • Overcome Femdom and Findom by Coach Nick
  • Owning And Training A Male Slave by Ingrid Bellemare
  • Power of the Pussy by Kara King
  • Psychodynamic Approach to Female Domination in BDSM Relationships by Nathalie Lugand
  • Protocols Handbook For The Female Slave by Robert Rubel
  • Radical Ecstasy: S/M to Transcendence by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
  • Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny
  • Real Women Don’t Do Housework by Fumika Misato
  • Rika’s Lair: Anthology – Essays on Dominance and Submission from Rika’s Lair Throughout the Years by Ms. Rika (@Ms_Rika )
  • Rose- My Life in Service to Lady Astor by Rosina Harrison
  • Sadomasochism: Powerful Pleasures by Peggy J. Kleinplatz and Charles Moser, MD
  • Secrets of Female Sexuality by David Shade
  • Serving Me by Ingrid Bellemare
  • Sex Power and Pleasure by Mariana Valverde
  • Sexual Power for Women by Georgeann Cross
  • Sex Tips from a Dominatrix by Patricia Payne
  • Sexual Key by JD Fuentes
  • Sexually Dominant Woman by Lady Green
  • Shadowplay: S/M Journeys to Ourselves by Dossie Easton
  • She Comes First by Ian Kerner PhD
  • She Squirts First by Olivia Bond
  • She Wants A Loving Female Led Relationship by TeErika Patterson
  • She’s In Control by MsNN
  • SlaveCraft – Guy Baldwin
  • SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
  • Some Kewl Training In The Evolution Of A Slave by Sandra Clark
  • Suddenly Dominatrix by Lady Saskia
  • Thinking Kink by Catherine Scott
  • This Is My Sub Mission by Nathaniel Colwyn
  • Tips for My Fellow Male Subs: (or How to Find a Mistress) by Gabriel @ WebWanderer Spiegel
  • The “Uniquely Series” by Ms. Rika (@Ms_Rika )
  • Uniquely Rika
  • Uniquely Us
  • Uniquely Dominant: Being the Dominant in a D/s Relationship
  • Venus On Top – Barbara Abernathy
  • Yes, Mistress: Why Men Crave Female Domination by Alicia Zadig
  • some recommendations if you are working with a therapist:
  • Unequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Dr. Sabrina Popp & Raven Kaldera
  • The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stafani Goerlich [Various assessment tools and worksheets]
  • Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich
  • There is controversy and concern that the following author is not a female, as they are portrayed, but in fact a group of men and ProDommes attempting to “sell” a version of femdom that is sub-centric and basically wank-fodder for me. If you choose to read their works, read it with a skeptical mind and a grain of salt.
  • Female Domination by Elise Sutton

Some recommendations if you are working with a therapist:

  • Unequal by Design: Counseling Power Dynamic Relationships by Dr. Sabrina Popp & Raven Kaldera
  • The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stafani Goerlich [Various assessment tools and worksheets]
  • Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair by Stefani Goerlich

Heads Up

There is controversy and concern that the following author is not a female, as they are portrayed, but in fact a group of men and ProDommes attempting to “sell” a version of femdom that is sub-centric and basically wank-fodder for me. If you choose to read their works, read it with a skeptical mind and a grain of salt.

Female Domination by Elise Sutton