Its been awhile since I last sat down to write anything as my life has been extremely busy in the last year. There have been lots of changes in our life this year. We finally escaped that hellhole they call California and now make our home in Wyoming. We have been here for one year now and it has been wonderful. Dog retired on December 31 of last year and I’m proud of him for surviving 25 years in Law Enforcement. The last few years have been so hard on him with all the extra bullshit so many people place on todays law enforcement officer. Anyway, this is not what I want to write about. I want to talk about one of my favorite topics, which is CHASTITY.

I have locked dog up for extended periods of time over the years but because of what he did for a living, I had to take it off him everyday before he went to work. Let’s get real here, I didn’t expect him to fight bad guys and maybe get hurt with a cock cage on. It would’ve been beyond humiliating for him to go to a hospital with his cage on and have to explain it to his partners. So, every night, when he got home, I locked him back up. Well, I don’t have to do that any longer. Since he is retired, I can lock him up and keep him locked for as long as I want. So throughout this year I have tried out many devices that I thought would work well for long term chastity and I finally found one. So I’ve had him locked in the new device for about 3 weeks now but there is no end time. He will remain locked forever, which makes me very happy. I don’t need the cage to make him be obedient, I’ve already taken care of that. I trust him and know he would never masturbate without me telling him to do so. I own his orgasms so he knows he really needs to please me for me to grant him one. I love the look of a caged cock, I love the real helpless feeling dog gets when locked, and I love knowing that my husband/slave is locked in a cock cage at the gym or whenever he is running errands. Dog is my slave and will always be my slave so I don’t need chastity, I want it and it pleases me so….. I will have it. I wanted to share what I have learned with a man in chastity. You can’t just lock a man up and expect to get results. No, you have to put in some effort as well. If you just lock him up and forget about it, he will become resentful, he will feel unwanted, and unloved. That is no way to keep a slave, you want him happy, content, and you need him to know how much it turns you on that he is locked. This will produce results.

1. Tease Tease Tease and more Tease. While he is locked you need to show him what it does to you. You need to masturbate while he rubs your feet. You need to use his mouth as frequently as possible. You need to verbally keep him in his place. I like to talk, I will often say things like..”What a bitch you are, you will do anything for me just to be able to touch your little clit”. That works for dog, but every woman needs to find what it is that makes your slave tick. Dog goes nuts for nylons and heels and verbal humiliation so you know he has to see me in them often and I talk a lot of shit. I make him feel like his chastity is pleasing me and turning me on, which makes him like it even when he’s having a hard time accepting.

2. If you have a friend you trust, tell her about it and let your slave know she knows. You will be surprised how it affects him.

3. Give rewards. I like to let him out of his cage for extended periods of time. Always bound though. I like to tie him to the bed and tell him he gets his cage off for one hour, then I take it off and leave him alone to think and suffer because he still can’t touch himself.

I also like to use his cock every now and then so after he is bound and helpless, I use it. I get mine and then the cage goes right back on. Then he gets untied. Sometimes, when he has been really good, I will reward him and allow him to sleep without it on. You guys know, sleeping is the hardest. He won’t dare touch himself but will be grateful for my kindness.

4. Send him random texts and sexy pics throughout the day. Show him what he can’t have unless you let him. Drive him insane with lust.

5. Have rules and expectations. Make him earn his orgasms. Give him list of chores or errands he needs to run. When he does them, put him on his knees, pull your pants down or lift your skirt and make him kiss your ass as a reward. Maybe allow him to lick your feet. Give him something he likes and I promise he will work even harder. On weekends, make him do the chores naked, while you relax. I love the sound of dogs lock banging against the cage as he walks around the house naked.

6. Randomly text him throughout the day and make him take a pic of his locked up cock. This makes him feel owned, makes him feel like you check on him to make sure he hasn’t figured out how to beat the cage, and it also gives you the chance to verbally humiliate him… if that is one of his triggers.

I hope this helps ladies who are considering chastity. Also, if your slave has been asking for it, give it to him. If you follow these little little things I do, the chastity experience will be even more rewarding for you.