Welcome to The Hub
(The Table of Contents)
UNIT 1: FEMDOM DYNAMICS
Chapter 1: Introduction
Welcome to The Femdom Hub
Meet the Teacher (and Her helper) – Who is Domina and why should I listen to her?
How Did You Meet Your boy (and How Did he Get So Lucky)?
The History of Femdom
Chapter 2: The basics
What is Femdom?
Femdom Vocabulary You Should Know
Dominant Roles and Titles
submissive Roles and Titles
Types of D/s Relationships – TAT? PAT? FLR? 24/7? What is everyone talking about?
TPE and CNC – what does that mean and how are they connected?
Mandatory Skills – Not much in kink is universal, but these skills are
How to Recognize a Dominant or Submissive Person – The Real Answer
The Vetting Process For A ‘Domme Like Me’
How do I tell a vanilla partner about my femdom needs?
A PODCAST with Dom Sub Living – What people get wrong about Total Power Exchange
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Youtube
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Coming out as kinky
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A PODCAST with As a sub – Debuting Your Kinks: A Formula
(starts at 13:30)
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with As a sub – Sub Frenzy, Safe Words, And The Myth Of The Top Shortage
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Boundary Issues, Part 1
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Boundary Issues, Part 2
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Red Flags in D/s Dynamics
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Natural Limits
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Respect
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Trust
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Chapter 3: Navigating the World of Female Dominance
What Am I? – Am I a submissive? Am I a Dominant?
Are you a submissive? Or a bottom?
Why Dominant Women are Under an Intense Amount of Pressure
The Rise (and Quiet Strength) of Sensual Domination: A Kinder, Gentler Form of D/s
The Findomme, the ‘do-me’ sub, and the rest of us – An article explaining lifestyle vs play
The Difference between a Submissive and a Slave: Two Different Answers
Are Female Lifestyle Dominants Mean?
Long-Distance Femdom Relationships
Building Trust in a Long-Distance Femdom Relationship
The Truth About Long-Distance Femdom Relationships: A Slave’s Perspective
A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Examining the Femdom Idiom
(starts at 7:15)
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Lifestyle Dominant
(starts at 3:30)
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Service sub
(starts at 4:30)
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Lifestyle, Dominatrixes, Femdoms, and Scammers (Know the DIFFERENCES!)
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash -The DONT’s (Rules according to a FemDom)
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Chapter 4: Finding a Partner
So You Want To Find A Partner
Finding a Partner in the BDSM Community
Male Fantasy vs the Reality of Female Dominance – on the true nature of Femdom.
The Courtship of the Dominant Woman – on the appropriate behavior for courting a Dominant Woman.
How do submissive men find their dominant partner?
Musings on Femdom and how the dynamic is either male centric or female centric
Two almost identical looking, very different femdom styles
Negotiating For What You Want
How to Spot a Scam in the Femdom or D/s Online Scene
A PODCAST with Ask a sub – Apps, Meeting IRL, and Seeking Compatibility
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Ask a sub – A Red Flag Refresher
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Finding YOUR female led relationship (Zubbie’s Insight)
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – How to make your partner KINKIER! Tips for a spicier love life.
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Sex, kink and self creation, Part 1
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Sex, kink and self creation, Part 2
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Femdom, feminism, and female supremacy
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Simps, subs, and male supremacy
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Chapter 5: The Dynamic (Your Relationship)
Navigating a New D/s Dynamic: Guidance for Both Submissives and Dominants
They Say Sub Frenzy Is Enthusiasm Dressed Up in A Kinky Cloak
Gender Identity and Honourifics
Designing Your D/s Contract
Collars – part 1 – Meaning of the collar
Collars – part 2 – Will your dynamic have a collar?
Collars – part 3 – Practical considerations
Negotiations and Protocol
How do Dominants get their subs into a submissive mindset after work?
In Praise of “Long Leash” D/s
Mommy/boy Dynamic
How to Recognize a Functional Dynamic
A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – The Female Led Relationship
(starts at 5:00)
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour -Easing Into an FLR D/s Dynamic
(starts at 5:00)
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A PODCAST with Ask a sub – Protocol Brain Dump
(starts at 7:00)
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Domestic discipline
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Domestic discipline Revised
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Consensual slavery, Part 1
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Consensual slavery, Part 2
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Chapter 6: For Dominants
Dommes Have Feelings Too
Power Myths and Being Empowered: Personal Power vs. Social Power
Power and Prejudice: Unmasking the Trials of Female Dominants
The Responsibility of a Dom
A submissive’s Advice to a Dominant
Advice for New Dominants from Experienced Submissives
A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Types of Dommes
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Dominant speech
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Chapter 7: For submissives
Do you REALLY want to serve?
Advice for a sub who can’t figure out how to get their needs met
Fantasy to Reality: The Challenges Submissive Men Face In Joining the Kink Community
I Want To Be Your Slave!! plzzzz
The Way We Talk About Submissive Men Drives Me Insane
On the Struggle of Being a Male Sub
Some thoughts on Dominant Woman/Femdom porn and spaces
Are you an Alpha sub?
How to Find a Dominant Female
Why Is It So Hard To Find A Female Dominant??
The Day I Said Goodbye to Femdom and Embraced Worthwhile Living Again
A PODCAST with Kat Nash – What type of Sub are you? (Exploring Sub Archetypes)
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Be a Good Boy for Dommy
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – How to be an EXCEPTIONAL SUBMISSIVE (Top FIVE Tips)
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Level Up Your D/s Relationship with this ONE THING
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Fishing for Femdoms
Youtube
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A PODCAST with Ask a sub – The World Needs Male Subs
(starts at 16:00)
Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Ask a sub – Fire Under Every Butt! (recognizing unsafe D types)
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Submissive speech part 1
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Submissive speech part 2
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UNIT 2: FEMDOM SKILLS & KINKS
Chapter 8: CBT
Is Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) Safe?
Basic Cock and Ball Torture
CBT Ideas
A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Cbt
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Cock and Ball Torture
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – CBT, Part 1
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – CBT, Part 2
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Chapter 9: CFnm
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – CFnm
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Chapter 10: Chastity / Orgasm Control
Honor Chastity
How Domina Does Chastity
Chastity – A Good Way to Introduce Femdom To My Partner?
Long Term Chastity (10 Lessons Learned)
CHASTITY and how it works for me
Chastity Tracker
PODCASTS with The Chastity Pod
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Chastity 101
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Male Chastity: Loctober
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Male Chastity, Part 1
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Male Chastity, Part 2
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Orgasm control
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Chapter 11: Humiliation
Humiliation and Degradation
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Physical humiliation
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Chapter 13: Pegging & Prostate Play
I was going to compile a great chapter about pegging just for you. It was going to be great! It would have lots of educational articles and podcasts and…
But then I found that all of that already exists! And I am not one to re-invent the strap-on. So, if you want to know anything about pegging, start here:
Ruby Ryder’s Pegging Paradise
She has articles and podcasts like…
New to Pegging?
What is Pegging?
Is Pegging Always Like I See in Pegging Porn Videos On-line?
So “Normal” Couples Can Do Pegging, Too?
Why Would a Woman Want to Peg Her Man? Why Would a Man Want to Be Pegged?
Where is the Prostate Gland?
How Can I Approach My Partner About Pegging Me? / How Can I Approach My Partner About Letting Me Peg Them?
She also has articles like:
Approaching Him About Pegging
Asking Her to Try it
The Right Lube pH for Where You Use the Lube!
Big Toys and Stigma
Men Want to Feel Beautiful and Wanted, Too
PODCASTS with Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Ruby Ryder – How Can I get My Partner to Be More Dominant When They Peg Me?
Pegging Paradise
A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – Pegging
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Pegging
(Starts at 4:00)
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Lily Morley Part 2: prostate massage
(starts at 25:45)
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A PODCAST with Kinky Cocktail Hour – Edge Play Part 7: Fisting
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Apple Podcasts
A PODCAST with Kinkyboy – Fisting
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Apple Podcasts
Chapter 14: The professional dominatrix
Confessions of a (re)tired Dominatrix
How to Make an Appointment with a Dominatrix
A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Dominatrix vs DUMBinatrix
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Order! Order! Kink is now in Session!
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – Name Your Flavor (types of femdom kink sessions)
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A PODCAST with Kat Nash – He should have listened to THIS before messaging!
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A PODCAST with Rockadopoleis – The professional dominatrix
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UNIT 3: MORE HELP and RESOURCES
Chapter 16: More Help and Resources
Dear Domina, – Ask Domina questions and learn from the questions for others
Domina’s Diary~ Updates on Domina’s life. What is She up to no
Chapter 17: Educational Books
Chapter 18: Website Stuff
Contact – How to get a hold of Domina with your questions and comments?
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