Domina’s Diary~

March, 2024

One year later….
My husband and I decided to get divorced. No matter how much he was willing to allow, I wanted more. Even the term “allow” drove me crazy. Who is anyone to “allow” me to do anything? I have never lived that way, and before kink I never needed permission from him to do anything. But the limits he had were not limits I could live with. So we separated. The separation was slow. Giving our kids and everyone a chance to acclimate
I had a sleep over at JoeBuxxx’s.
Then another.
Then my husband and I started taking turns leaving the home every other weekend

In the next 2 weeks my husband and I will each have our own place and the kids will stay in the family home. We will take turns staying with them, one week on and one week off.
My off weeks will be spent living with Joe in a 24/7 dynamic. It is exciting and nerve-wracking. I feel elation and guilt, optimism and fear.Joe and I go to parties. Twice we have gone to out of town events. We had a blast in Cincy at the Grand Fetish Affair.
We go on vanilla dates.
We hosted a CFnm dinner party.

I am very excited for the next chapter in my life and pray my kids will be OK.

Aug 27, 2024

JoeBuxxx and I have a place together. And we made a dungeon!
https://fetlife.com/_-Domina-_/a/our-dungeon-gpvhb

What a wild ride this is!
We live together one week and live apart one week.
Our kink started to drift during the move because we had no time for anything except unpacking. (And then we lost power at both my homes!), shopping, putting furniture together plus work and regular chores.
But now that we are 80% there, the kink is coming back.

We hosted a CFnm party with more people and we had a dungeon to play in.
We have picked up the bi-weekly relationship meetings.
We have made a commitment to collar him every day when he gets home from work.
He is back to nude around the house.
We have been cranking out the porn. (He loves making porn!) and I love reviving certain porn assignments when we are apart.

Our divorces are still works “in progress” but they are moving forward.
Our kids have met.
We went out to eat as one big “family”.

I continue to be incredibly happy! I love this journey and I love JoeBuxxx .

Jan 29, 2025

JoeBuXXX and I have decided to take the next step towards a goal. We have been talking for a long time about adding another boy to our dynamic. I decided to put a wait on it for 5 years until we were a firmly cemented couple.

Well, we got firmer faster than I thought and we started talking about it again. Even though we are only 2 years in the journey, we feel strong enough to give it a try.
We weren’t looking. But we were not closed off to the possibility.

Feb 17, 2025

Look at me! Another life goal started! A Femdom Website full of educational information. I feel like I have come full circle.

• From an independent woman, traveling the globe and writing a travel blog
• To a vanilla husband and marriage where I was forced to choose between my marriage and my on line life
• – To NOW. I own a boi! I run my life (and his), I do all the kinky, crazy things I wanted to do! I am my authentic self and run in kinky circles, and NOW I have once again, put myself on line to pick up the journey. But this time instead of waiting the chronicles of my travels, I am writing the chronicles of my Femdom journey. And I hope you all come along or the ride!